Married, but still dating?

**Miss O.** · 09-16-2009

This is past summer i heard manyyyy of these stories going around and the first couple times i said to myself..."mmmm its only one or two people" well now its like half the people i know or people i know, know people who are in this same situation. So basically now ive heard about a lot of PEOPLE doing this.....

what is it you ask? lol well i dont know how common it is among ladies, but i know or ive heard its the new trend with guys.

guys 20's 30's go and build relationships with married women!...I don't know whats going on or going through their heads. and i specifically said building relationships because ive talked to many who talk about how in love they are with this lady....but shes married!

i dont get whos the one to blame because i myself cant comprehend what would let so many people do this.

first of all what on earth is up with the married woman?? is marriage that bad? did so many of them choose the wrong guy? and the guys out there is this how you think to build a future with a girl who cant even be there for you because...oh ya she has her husband too lol.

So What do you all think about this new "trend"? Have you been hearing about it? is it getting more common? who's fault do you think it is? the Married woman or the single guy? and finally....

once you know a guy or even a girl have had a relationship with someone who was married...would you be able to build a relationship with them? or would you feel if they felt it was ok for the girl or guy to cheat on their husband or wife than it will be ok for them to cheat on you? (if this is confusing ill clear it up lol)

thanks!

Miss O.

**TAREK®** · 09-16-2009

yeah i heard so much about it, and i think its kinda of disgusting

well u said 20 years and 30 years old men do it, well I think u have 2 cases:

1- its either he really loves her and her parents forced her to marry someone she doesn't like (which is very rare)

2- she is very rich w bado min yesrof 3leh

( which is very common specially if the woman is older than him

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the even worst case is when a 50 years old man dating a married 30 years old woman, then there is only one explanation for this:

she wants money and he wants sex (tramp in a classy way

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I think such things bye5erbo byout and uncalled for I mean if u want to date someone fine go, date but at least tell ur husband to divorce u.....

but if u did and he doesn't want to divorce, then here I cant blame the wife, bass kamen habal la2an she will be expecting from the guy to do something about it and she will be disapointed if things didn't work out

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first of all what on earth is up with the married woman?? is marriage that bad? did so many of them choose the wrong guy? and the guys out there is this how you think to build a future with a girl who cant even be there for you because...oh ya she has her husband too lol.

actually thats the problem right here...... they dont think

second such relationships are either build out of desperation or (in a very rare situation) out of love because she married someone she doesn't love just to please her parents

well thats my opinion for now

3arabi · 09-16-2009

alot of pple this days searching for the perfect person , some of them think that some where in the world is there next part. if u would like to search for the wright person in 6 milliard its very hard (do u know the probability of this) that if there next part still alive :P.
so they decided to got some one in the hand and to search secretly.thats the first reason.
second reason, some one don t have enough sex or they didn t got there orgasmos soo they decided to try with another person who s younger als there husbend some times.

Confucius · 09-16-2009

heh good question in the last bit

hmmmm..well yeah i've seen some guys mostly (never girls, or maybe girls just hide it while guys brag about it i guess) that are in a relationship with married elder women, but the thing is..none of them is what i call relationship material, enno they're more in it for the sex, but some are also in it for the money, w few are actually in love or falling..
anyways i can't trust some1 who've had a relationship with a married person no matter what the reason was, if it was all done under her/his own will knowing that the other person is married, then i know that she/he doesn't respect relationships and what they stand for (respect others in order to get respect urself, this person didn't respect some others relationship, ba2a i dnt think she/he SHOULD get respect with their own relationship).
for me bfaddel the cute kind of girls that are somewhat mhazzbin, they never go in a relationship with some1 3endo a girlfriend 7atta, ta yejo yedharo ma3 wa7ad mjawwaz ?

so ofc not is my answer

**xcoder** · 09-16-2009

Marriage itself is the wrong thing, inno 3anjad some people believe they will stay in love for all their lives? nothing lasts forever especially feelings.
If someone you care about dies, you will feel very sad for the first 2 years then it becomes normal, our system functions that way.

We always look for the perfect person and always think we can get better and that's true! the mistake is getting married at an early age without really knowing where they're heading.

The only thing i blame those people for is not being honest with their partners and break up which they avoid because they have common interests either children or material.

I don't blame those people for their feelings and their needs, we're all human after all and we only live once. Happiness is where we feel happy and fulfill our needs.

Sexually speaking, married / mature women are experienced and know what they want and how to get it (enough for now :P).

3arabi · 09-16-2009

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