Ex-Relations Vs. New

abousoun · 03-21-2007

Okey imagine yourself in such a situation ...
you met someone ... fell in love with ... about things to get serious ... then discovered that this person had previous relation [have been engaged, married (now divorced or widower)]
- What kind of reaction you'll have ?

Now let's forget about the above ...
- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?

- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?

- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...

like the saying "لازم تتزوج بنت مش بايس تمّها غير امها"

- For girls: Does knowing your boyfriend, fiancé, husband was sexually active before he met you disturbs you?

Share us what you think

Thank You ...

SysTaMatIcS · 03-21-2007

What kind of reaction you'll have ?
surprised and shocked for no knowing...down,cuz of the decieving
- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?
mmm.tough question,yeh
- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?
sure if this one is really good
- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...
mmmmmmm.well when i think abt it , i get angry if she aint virgin, but after thinking alot abt it,id really prefer her a virgin,but theres some circumunstances in her life that made her do tht...

**xcoder** · 03-21-2007

Nice topics as always doc.

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- What kind of reaction you'll have ?

i don't see it as a problem at all but as a person who has experience in this things.
actually i've been in worse situation a year and half ago i was 17 years old and going out with not a previous but a married woman. a mistake i'll never do again.

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- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?

I don't mind it, actually i can't find the problem if she was married before.

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- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?

I don't mind it neither bass mish ykouno shi 10. 2 maximum.

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- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...

like the saying "لازم تتزوج بنت مش بايس تمّها غير امها"

men are like women what applies to men applies to women that's the way i see it.

Sniper · 03-21-2007

1) My reaction will be to get to know things about that sbject better and not to jump to conclusions and be rational

2)Yes i am willing as long as everything goes well, i consider this to be as a relation where my partner has never been in a relationship before, there is no difference when it comes to me

3)That i am not willing to do, because the burden that they are not mine, they will not carry on my legacy, will continue to haunt me forever till the day i die

4)Yes that is a special thing for me, otherwise, if she is not a virgin, the idea that she is a **** might come up

J()e · 03-21-2007

What kind of reaction you'll have ?
normal reaction,or maybe a litle bit surprised
- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?
i guess yeah,why not ??
- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?
tough question,but i think that 70%yes and 30%no
- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...
i think so ...cz knowing her when she is virgin makes me take off the idea that she migh be a ****,and beside i think we should have a sex relation be4 marriage if we r 100% that we belong 2gether

**Sheriff Ice** · 03-21-2007

What kind of reaction you'll have ?
well i dont think ill have an action, cuz if i felt in love with someone i think maybe i would discover its life before committement.
- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?
yeah sure no pb they are still ppl like us
- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?
sure, enno if i liked someone for its own why should i break with her if she has children or kids, i should respect her life.
- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...
no i dont care really, cuz really i dont care abt her past i just care abt the actual realtion we are in enno abt the commiitement but if she breaked she realtion or if she cheated i think here the prob, enno the question is: why is it allowed for me as a guy to have sex and she is not??isnt she a human being that have emotion and needs???

mickey · 03-21-2007

- What kind of reaction you'll have ?

A bit sad coz I have the right to know it. Truth sometimes is more important than love, but it won't change anything in the relation.

- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?

I can answer this honestly. It happened with me. And it's so normal, but there's a problem which is parents and society. I don't care about society but I care for my family. I respect my parents' opinion and I prefer their approval.

- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?

(Enno shou abousoun ? Is it dedicated for me? ) Yes I will raise them as if they are my own. Well I did And it's so lovely to love a boy as if it's urs. Coz there's a difference between by biological father and THE father.
Your father is the one who takes care of u and raises you to become a man and a good person. Not the one who brings you to life and doesn't care about you.

- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...

Wen ba3ed fi benet mesh beyis temma gher emma? Eno common, even if she's not virgin? Shou ana kenet natir hiye tejeh la battil virgin?
But this East society and the Arab thinking is weird. There's a point of vue of both opinions, but I don't have a problem.

Malak · 03-22-2007

Okey imagine yourself in such a situation ...
you met someone ... fell in love with ... about things to get serious ... then discovered that this person had previous relation [have been engaged, married (now divorced or widower)]
- What kind of reaction you'll have ?

well i wont be surprised at all - coz everyone have his rights to do whatever he want before getting into a straight relationship ... but ll take a look abt the problem that happened between the old couple
and what make them go everyone on his road appart....

Now let's forget about the above ...
- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?

it is not a problem for me at all....
- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?

well if i love the woman ... surely ill love her children too ...coz as they are her kids ... as they will be mine later .... but for sure we have to know abt their dad if he is coming back later to take them... is he wanting always to see them and stuff...

- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...

like the saying "لازم تتزوج بنت مش بايس تمّها غير امها"

i am not going to marry a girl coz she is a virgin or not.... every girl or every person pass throught many circonstances ... and many reationships ... and we know that the person learn from its faults... so virginity doenst make sence to me ... but the thing that i want to be sure of is the girl will love me forever....

Malak · 03-22-2007

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Originally Posted by lf rabieh

What kind of reaction you'll have ?
normal reaction,or maybe a litle bit surprised
- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?
i guess yeah,why not ??
- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?
tough question,but i think that 70%yes and 30%no
- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...
i think so ...cz knowing her when she is virgin makes me take off the idea that she migh be a ****,and beside i think we should have a sex relation be4 marriage if we r 100% that we belong 2gether

you want the girl to be a virgin or she may be a B**** ... if she is not .... tab how come u dont have anypoblem marrying a married before girl ?
i guess yeah,why not ??

**Tawa** · 03-24-2007

- What kind of reaction you'll have ?
This Will Be My Reaction:
(5oubara El Emoticons Bifassroolkoon Yeiha )

- Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before?
I Don't Think So...
I Mean, If That Woman Has Children, I Can't Accept It I Don't Know Lal Sara7a, I Never Was In A Situation Like It

- Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ?
Well, I Already Answered In The 2nd Question...

- For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ...

like the saying "لازم تتزوج بنت مش بايس تمّها غير امها"

Hmmm... These Are Tough Questions Ya Abousoun lol...
Well, I'm Not Against Marrying A Girl That Has Already Lost Her Virginity With Someone Else... But I'm Against Marrying A Girl That Lost Her Virginity For Pleasure, Cause You All Know What Kind Of Girls Are Those...
I Mean, If She Lost Her Virginity With A Guy That She Used To Love, And The Guy Broke Up With Her, I Don't Have A Problem As Long As She Fell In Love With Me And I Loved Her Too... Cause I'm Not Against Sex Before Marriage, Especially If The Couples Are In Love...
PS: Ma32ool 7ada Yetjawwaz We7deh Emma Beiyseta Bi Temma? kidding

03-21-2007	#1
abousoun Registered Member Last Online: 04-16-2011 Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,230 Thanks: 2,159 Thanked 3,965 Times in 1,663 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 2 Times in 2 Posts	Ex-Relations Vs. New Okey imagine yourself in such a situation ... you met someone ... fell in love with ... about things to get serious ... then discovered that this person had previous relation [have been engaged, married (now divorced or widower)] - What kind of reaction you'll have ? Now let's forget about the above ... - Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before? - Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ? - For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ... like the saying "لازم تتزوج بنت مش بايس تمّها غير امها" - For girls: Does knowing your boyfriend, fiancé, husband was sexually active before he met you disturbs you? Share us what you think Thank You ... __________________ Jess' Signature

03-21-2007	#2
SysTaMatIcS Registered Member Last Online: 10-14-2022 Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 10,467 Thanks: 14,136 Thanked 4,244 Times in 2,547 Posts Groans: 186 Groaned at 198 Times in 120 Posts	Re: Ex-Relations Vs. New What kind of reaction you'll have ? surprised and shocked for no knowing...down,cuz of the decieving - Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before? mmm.tough question,yeh - Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ? sure if this one is really good - For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ... mmmmmmm.well when i think abt it , i get angry if she aint virgin, but after thinking alot abt it,id really prefer her a virgin,but theres some circumunstances in her life that made her do tht... __________________ problems of performance appraisal is that it sucks to memorize them

03-21-2007	#4
Sniper Registered Member Last Online: 05-19-2010 Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 925 Thanks: 169 Thanked 193 Times in 145 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Ex-Relations Vs. New 1) My reaction will be to get to know things about that sbject better and not to jump to conclusions and be rational 2)Yes i am willing as long as everything goes well, i consider this to be as a relation where my partner has never been in a relationship before, there is no difference when it comes to me 3)That i am not willing to do, because the burden that they are not mine, they will not carry on my legacy, will continue to haunt me forever till the day i die 4)Yes that is a special thing for me, otherwise, if she is not a virgin, the idea that she is a **** might come up

03-21-2007	#5
J()e Registered Member Last Online: 06-13-2011 Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 3,530 Thanks: 1,762 Thanked 1,429 Times in 897 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Ex-Relations Vs. New What kind of reaction you'll have ? normal reaction,or maybe a litle bit surprised - Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before? i guess yeah,why not ?? - Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ? tough question,but i think that 70%yes and 30%no - For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ... i think so ...cz knowing her when she is virgin makes me take off the idea that she migh be a ****,and beside i think we should have a sex relation be4 marriage if we r 100% that we belong 2gether __________________ [

03-21-2007	#6
Sheriff Ice info@sync.com.lb Last Online: 11-29-2020 Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 3,827 Thanks: 1,348 Thanked 2,391 Times in 1,306 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 16 Times in 15 Posts	Re: Ex-Relations Vs. New What kind of reaction you'll have ? well i dont think ill have an action, cuz if i felt in love with someone i think maybe i would discover its life before committement. - Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before? yeah sure no pb they are still ppl like us - Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ? sure, enno if i liked someone for its own why should i break with her if she has children or kids, i should respect her life. - For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ... no i dont care really, cuz really i dont care abt her past i just care abt the actual realtion we are in enno abt the commiitement but if she breaked she realtion or if she cheated i think here the prob, enno the question is: why is it allowed for me as a guy to have sex and she is not??isnt she a human being that have emotion and needs??? __________________ http://www.gamync.com Lebanese Produced Mobiles Games by http://www.sync.com.lb Last edited by Sheriff Ice; 03-21-2007 at 10:03 PM.

03-21-2007	#7
mickey Registered Member Last Online: 06-16-2010 Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,139 Thanks: 9 Thanked 72 Times in 54 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 2 Times in 2 Posts	Re: Ex-Relations Vs. New - What kind of reaction you'll have ? A bit sad coz I have the right to know it. Truth sometimes is more important than love, but it won't change anything in the relation. - Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before? I can answer this honestly. It happened with me. And it's so normal, but there's a problem which is parents and society. I don't care about society but I care for my family. I respect my parents' opinion and I prefer their approval. - Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ? (Enno shou abousoun ? Is it dedicated for me? ) Yes I will raise them as if they are my own. Well I did And it's so lovely to love a boy as if it's urs. Coz there's a difference between by biological father and THE father. Your father is the one who takes care of u and raises you to become a man and a good person. Not the one who brings you to life and doesn't care about you. - For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ... Wen ba3ed fi benet mesh beyis temma gher emma? Eno common, even if she's not virgin? Shou ana kenet natir hiye tejeh la battil virgin? But this East society and the Arab thinking is weird. There's a point of vue of both opinions, but I don't have a problem. __________________ Economics: Dig First, Money Later

03-22-2007	#8
Malak Registered Member Last Online: 03-27-2009 Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,385 Thanks: 6 Thanked 11 Times in 9 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Ex-Relations Vs. New Okey imagine yourself in such a situation ... you met someone ... fell in love with ... about things to get serious ... then discovered that this person had previous relation [have been engaged, married (now divorced or widower)] - What kind of reaction you'll have ? well i wont be surprised at all - coz everyone have his rights to do whatever he want before getting into a straight relationship ... but ll take a look abt the problem that happened between the old couple and what make them go everyone on his road appart.... Now let's forget about the above ... - Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before? it is not a problem for me at all.... - Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ? well if i love the woman ... surely ill love her children too ...coz as they are her kids ... as they will be mine later .... but for sure we have to know abt their dad if he is coming back later to take them... is he wanting always to see them and stuff... - For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ... like the saying "لازم تتزوج بنت مش بايس تمّها غير امها" i am not going to marry a girl coz she is a virgin or not.... every girl or every person pass throught many circonstances ... and many reationships ... and we know that the person learn from its faults... so virginity doenst make sence to me ... but the thing that i want to be sure of is the girl will love me forever.... __________________ http://www.tayyar.org/tayyar/leb_logo.gif http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w...tch/capt-1.jpg http://www.tayyar.org/tayyar/leb_logo.gif القصّة كلّة

03-24-2007	#10
Tawa  Last Online: 12-20-2021 Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 6,245 Thanks: 2,121 Thanked 3,365 Times in 1,740 Posts Groans: 29 Groaned at 44 Times in 35 Posts	Re: Ex-Relations Vs. New - What kind of reaction you'll have ? This Will Be My Reaction: (5oubara El Emoticons Bifassroolkoon Yeiha ) - Are you willing to meet then marry someone who had been married before? I Don't Think So... I Mean, If That Woman Has Children, I Can't Accept It I Don't Know Lal Sara7a, I Never Was In A Situation Like It - Are you willing to marry someone that have children ? Will you love and raise his/her kids as if they are your own ? Well, I Already Answered In The 2nd Question... - For boys: Is it important that the girl you want to spend your life with, should be virgin ... in other words you are her first man ... like the saying "لازم تتزوج بنت مش بايس تمّها غير امها" Hmmm... These Are Tough Questions Ya Abousoun lol... Well, I'm Not Against Marrying A Girl That Has Already Lost Her Virginity With Someone Else... But I'm Against Marrying A Girl That Lost Her Virginity For Pleasure, Cause You All Know What Kind Of Girls Are Those... I Mean, If She Lost Her Virginity With A Guy That She Used To Love, And The Guy Broke Up With Her, I Don't Have A Problem As Long As She Fell In Love With Me And I Loved Her Too... Cause I'm Not Against Sex Before Marriage, Especially If The Couples Are In Love... PS: Ma32ool 7ada Yetjawwaz We7deh Emma Beiyseta Bi Temma? kidding __________________ What we do in life, echoes in eternity.

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