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Old 04-26-2008   #11
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Aneh ma3 l tala2 Most kids if they had the wisdom to choose, would choose that their parents be separated ....All that said, most marriages lack love after some time passes and become more of a stability and duty thing...Love is not the only criteria for a successful marriage as Adam and His Honor, Ancient Tawa, mentioned already


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- By drinking and smoking ... (doing drugs is optional)
- Surprised ? well don't be ...
- because by drinking and smoking you'll temporary relieve your anger and forget your misery ...
- with time drinking and smoking won't be that enough ... so you'll have to increase the dosage to get the same previous effect ...
and of course with more drinking you'll be endangering your health ...
- once your health become very bad, you'll need to seek medical advise ...
so you see a doctor who will advise you to stop drinking and to avoid stress and all that ... as well he will say the same thing to your family ...
- after a certain period, you start to feel remorse and then you see the affection of your entourage (illnees brings people together), and your forget about the small things and start to focus on what's more important ... and eventually all things will work out just fine ... akid thanks to that doctor

- another method is to directly seek marriage counselling and to open up to each other ... but i think the first method is way better

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i guess the only solution is separation ( not divorce) for the sake of the childrens because if they stay 2gether they wont be stading the presence of each others and they'll keep on fighting day n night or the father will go out in the early morning and will be back late at night pretending he had work to avoid being with his wife ... and i dont think any kid will be happy to see his parents fighting day n night or avoiding each others and this ct be hidden no matter what
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Hmm sarah couldnt say it better w also i think eno couples don't stay together for the children no way.
They stay for themselves. They stay for reasons that have zero to do with the children
They stay because they are afraid they can't make it on their own. They stay because they fear giving up the lifestyle and or their standard of living. Unable to run two separate households is why some stay.

To keep up a facade, avoid being ostricized by family and relatives, is why they stay. They stay because they don't want to be looked on as failures. Anyone who stays in an unhappy marriage is ultimately staying for him or herself.

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So guys what do you think ??
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divorce would be a good choice if kids are a little bit old ya3ne if the kids 4-5 years old divorce will kill them
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Guys why dont u think eno Divorce is the best solution?
divorce isnt always the best solution but sometimes disperate times calls for disperate matters, the last thing married people should think about is divorce coz it isnt an easy decision to take nor an easy move to do
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I'm with icemaker bass enno the divorce is not bade thing bel 3akes probability ykoun the right thing w yetfehamo aktar el ahel w y3icho el wled a good life
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