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Old 05-19-2008   #21
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I'll sure dump him, cz what happens once can happen again and again...


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Old 05-19-2008   #22
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poeple no one of u is measuring this on him/herself !!
what if it was u who got drunk? would u tell ur bf/gf sorry i had sex while i was drunk therefor we must break up coz i feel so guilty !
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poeple no one of u is measuring this on him/herself !!
what if it was u who got drunk? would u tell ur bf/gf sorry i had sex while i was drunk therefor we must break up coz i feel so guilty !

is it a matter of sorry? ok ill put on my self, i was drunk, i had sex, then my G.F. has da right to be drunk n have sex, and so on, w relation ya 3ayni
aslan if such thing happen, i would apologize 1st, then ill tell her i would like to break up, coz it will always be smthn bad 2 be remembered, w it will have consequences on the relation, no matter how big is the love, such things might make everythin vanish!
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I will dump her for sure...If it happened once it doesn't meant that it won't happen again...
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donno if i'll dump him never happened to me, in fact it might happen w i didnt know, so the pt is :
wat if a long time passed on his/her act,wat wld u do then?
let's say u're datin a girl/boy from 2 years,2day u knew that from 1 year she/he made sex wiz som1 bcz he/she was drunk wat wld u do? eventhough its been 1 year on the incident and u were stil wiz her/him as nthg happened bcz aslan ma kent 3arif, nw wat u'll do? dump her? stay wiz her? and let's say that he/she didnt lie on u, bas its all abt she/he was drunk w they cldnt even remember wat happened that night...
well i wont dump him if he admited wiz his mistake, i give another chance no1 is perfect, bas i think that after that our relation wont b as it was, i fl eno it becomes unstable, w fi mashekil w doubts ktir, w if he really loves me b7es eno ra7 ydal 7esis bel zaneb w shou ma 3emil 7a ydal m2asar
(i do believe in love w i do believe that some couples even after being married for more thn 10 years bisir fi ghalat bhal ne7ye bas u can always give a chance, so i might be silly bas its just the way i think)
but im quiet sure i wont 4give myself if im the one who betrayed him
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donno if i'll dump him never happened to me, in fact it might happen w i didnt know, so the pt is :
wat if a long time passed on his/her act,wat wld u do then?
let's say u're datin a girl/boy from 2 years,2day u knew that from 1 year she/he made sex wiz som1 bcz he/she was drunk wat wld u do? eventhough its been 1 year on the incident and u were stil wiz her/him as nthg happened bcz aslan ma kent 3arif, nw wat u'll do? dump her? stay wiz her? and let's say that he/she didnt lie on u, bas its all abt she/he was drunk w they cldnt even remember wat happened that night...
well i wont dump him if he admited wiz his mistake, i give another chance no1 is perfect, bas i think that after that our relation wont b as it was, i fl eno it becomes unstable, w fi mashekil w doubts ktir, w if he really loves me b7es eno ra7 ydal 7esis bel zaneb w shou ma 3emil 7a ydal m2asar
(i do believe in love w i do believe that some couples even after being married for more thn 10 years bisir fi ghalat bhal ne7ye bas u can always give a chance, so i might be silly bas its just the way i think)
but im quiet sure i wont 4give myself if im the one who betrayed him
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This is the scenario:

You've been seriously dating someone. One night, your boyfriend/girlfriend goes to a party, gets drunk and blacks out. Later, someone tells you that s/he had sex with someone at the party.

You know for sure that your gf/bf really has no memory of this, did not intend for it to happen, and is upset about it.

Do you dump this person? Why and, if not, how do you react?

So Guys???

Anyone??
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People can be subject to temptations of any kind
Bear in mind that a human being is weak regarding his instincts
He could get 'drifted' at any second

As sheriff said no one is perfect

However this doesn't mean it is allowed to happen another time
Remember the famous quote : fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me

Forgive and forget, give another chance
if it is happening again then to hell with it.
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People can be subject to temptations of any kind
Bear in mind that a human being is weak regarding his instincts
He could get 'drifted' at any second

As sheriff said no one is perfect

However this doesn't mean it is allowed to happen another time
Remember the famous quote : fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me

Forgive and forget, give another chance
if it is happening again then to hell with it.
the girl version of abousoun very wisely said
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Forgive and forget, give another chance
if it is happening again then to hell with it.

Trust me sometimes it's never easy to forgive neither to forget hek chi
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