Education vs Marriage

[abousoun]

Many families don't accept the idea of marriage of their son/daughter during their education period because education should come first and then marriage comes ...
- Is their point of view correct regarding boys ? regarding girls ?

- Does Education represents an obstacle for marriage ? or a person can handle both at the same time ?

- Is university degree a guarantee for the future of girl more than marriage ?

- Is Marriage at early age a strong cause of divorce ? coz the guy can't handle responsibility yet, and the girl is occupied with her studies ... so the problems begin to accumulate !

Share us what you think

Thank You ...

[Sniper]

- Is their point of view correct regarding boys ? regarding girls ?
Ofcourse their point of view is correct in bothe cases, how are they to provide for each other if they have no jobs, therefore no money, therefore no future

- Does Education represents an obstacle for marriage ? or a person can handle both at the same time ?
People canot handle both at the same time, people have to get an education first, then get a job, then get married so they have a sense of how to provide for each other

- Is university degree a guarantee for the future of girl more than marriage ?
Ofcourse, girls cannot depend on marriage and their husbands supporting for them, both the husband and the wife should provide for each other, so the girl needs the degree so she can work

Is Marriage at early age a strong cause of divorce ?
Ofcourse, people, as i said, shoudnt marry at an early age, they should wait to be adults so they can sort their future out

[Tawa]

Many families don't accept the idea of marriage of their son/daughter during their education period because education should come first and then marriage comes ...
- Is their point of view correct regarding boys ? regarding girls ?
Well, I Don't Think It's Correct For Both, Boys And Girls.
Cause, Education Is Not Everything, If The Two Can Live Together, w2eza Fyoon Y2ammno Mousta2baloon, I Don't Think That They Both Should Be Educated.

- Does Education represents an obstacle for marriage ? or a person can handle both at the same time ?
Well, My Uncle Is Not Educated, He Reached Grade 9 And Left School, And He Got Married Two Years Ago, And His Wife Is Pregnant Now, And They're Living A Very Happy Life, Bala 7asad, w2allah Yeb3ood El Darbeit
And They Handle Everything. So I Don't Think That Education Represents An Obstacle For Marriage At All...

- Is university degree a guarantee for the future of girl more than marriage ?
Well, I Think That Yes, It's True That The Girl Doesn't Have To Have A University Degree To Get Married, But If She Has It, The Has The Guarantee For Her Future, In Case She Didn't Get Married.

- Is Marriage at early age a strong cause of divorce ?
Well, Yeah I Guess, Marriage At Early Age Is Difficult, And I'm Against It If The Couple Can't Take This Responsibility...

[sarah32]

- Is their point of view correct regarding boys ? regarding girls ?
How can a guy with no degrees have a family ? what is he gona work ? shi zghir ? is it gona be enough to put his kids in school and to assure a good life to his wife? i dont think so .. when it comes to girls all parents think this way eno a girl with a degree wont be "dependente" of her husband .. in case toli3 a son of a ***** she can leave him and live her life .. she can work .. 3akes benet who cant work w ma ma3a shhede w btojbor 7ala teb2a with her husband la t3ish ..

- Does Education represents an obstacle for marriage ? or a person can handle both at the same time ?
it's not an obstacle but when i think of marriage i think of family n kids .. n when m havin kids i'll do my best to be with them aktar wa2et possible ... w i cant do it if m at uni ..

- Is university degree a guarantee for the future of girl more than marriage ?
yup ... as i said before if ur husband turned out to be an a** u can just pack and leave

- Is Marriage at early age a strong cause of divorce ?
yes coz the 2 persons rnt mature enough and they cant b sure abt their feelings coz they didnt get enough experience ...

[Justin]

- Is their point of view correct regarding boys ? regarding girls ?

Boys: Actually, even EDUCATION Isn't enough to get married... u have to finish education n have a job then start thinking of planning to get married.. cuz in our world 2day... studies aren't everythin'... u need 2 get a job... many students got their degrees n didnt have a job... that leads us to a question: "Could u get married without having a job?"... 2en2en... impossible...

Girls: In my opinion, they should get married after finishing their education so they could teach their children @ home, helping them with their homeworks n studies... they can play the role of a Teacher/Tutor...

- Does Education represents an obstacle for marriage ? or a person can handle both at the same time ?

Education is a small life obstacle.. all what u gotta do is 2 graduate n get ur degree with honor.. n here comes the HUGE OBSTACLE in our life today.."MARRIAGE"... it's not a game, it's not a toy, it's not limited... marriage is another NEW LIFE... u can't work n study n have children at the same time... u won't last long in my opinion.. humans r not machines...

- Is university degree a guarantee for the future of girl more than marriage ?

Actually, YES... after marriage, there's divorce... who's gonna spend that money on her?... HER JOB WILL not her X-Husband

- Is Marriage at early age a strong cause of divorce ?

The Divorce comes for a reason of being irresponsible

[pink]

1)for both : i thnk both should complete ther education inorder 2 be capable 2 marry..nd sure education comes 1st ..for if theyr guna marry while studyin then they wont be able 2 do any of the two...
2)sure yes,.. a person ,any human bein cannot handle nd live properly wth two magor thngs in 1 life...his wife/husband...nd studyin and takin responsibilities of 2 different thngs...if it shows 2 work for a while,,then it wud b bcz the person wants it 2 work..but sooner or later he wont b able 2 take it anymore....
3)yeah...i dunno if more...but am sure that education is a sure gurrantee 4 a gurl... for noone assures time nd life games wth us..nd education is a forever weapon
4)yeah..bcz ppl at young age wud b thnkin that they found all wut theyv lukin 4 but indeed it wud b just an illusion of happines..so yeah marriage at early age may b a main reason 4 divorce..

[General]

Originally Posted by abousoun

Many families don't accept the idea of marriage of their son/daughter during their education period because education should come first and then marriage comes ...
- Is their point of view correct regarding boys ? regarding girls ?

- Does Education represents an obstacle for marriage ? or a person can handle both at the same time ?

- Is university degree a guarantee for the future of girl more than marriage ?

- Is Marriage at early age a strong cause of divorce ? coz the guy can't handle responsibility yet, and the girl is occupied with her studies ... so the problems begin to accumulate !

Share us what you think

Thank You ...

و زتّي عنّك هالمريول و يلا لنطير سوية

No marriage before the end of studies no matter what!

No family before work

Family comes in the end, after graduating and finding work (aka استقرار)

[mr_j]

long but nice post

reviving an old thread, and I wish to get new answers now. I will not answer the questions of this thread the way they are asked, I will just write a paragraph about it. feel free to do the same:
*ahem*

education is important for both males and females to get married and yes I see education as an obstacle for marriage. uneducated will of course get married, but lets put it this way, would a female doctor, dentist, whatever marry a man that is uneducated? I think no way, they can't even speak 2 words to each others without it feeling awkward. same goes for guys, I just can't marry someone who is uneducated, I find a hard time even speaking to uneducated people, not because I feel I am better, bas simply because we have nothing in common. I want to speak biology, economy, computers, sociology, logic!!. what are they going to speak about? how they got drunk the other day or about how they got into some fight, in the village, they keep telling me when was the last time they milked the cow and how they put it to sleep. and they would look at me as if I am from another planet, and I would look at them the same way.

imagine living with someone you don't understand.

education does not have to be equal, men I think should be more educated, we have a better chance. halla2 before you accuse me of being a sexist, lets face the truth. guys can reach the age of 28 and 30 and not get married, they can afford to stay at the uni till the age of 26 studying for a PHD. on the other hand women in their 30s will find a hard time getting married especialy if she is aming for guys younguer than 36, so it is common for men to have a higher education. and even if women won't work after marriage, they need that degree . like I said better communication, and a feeling of independance, that you achieved something on your own, mich la papi wla jawzé


to women who value their looks too much and don't value or take care of education and brains, by the time you reach 50, you would have lost any and all of your worth, if for some reason you get divorced, widowed la sama7 alla etc... you're nothing
a 50 year old man with no education can still work as a technician, taxi driver etc... a 50 year old uneducated woman won't even be hired to sell vegetables.