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Old 08-03-2007   #11
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actually... i call it "3eshre ghalat" .... since he is sarah's best friend I think he is capable 2 share with her his emotions & painful issues.... but since he didnt maybe he doesnt have maybe its all about these pyscotic son *****es friendz... 3am yel3abo bi 3a2lo...


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Old 08-03-2007   #12
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jad it all started after he broke up with his ****** gf ... and men wa2ta every night girls l alcohol n gettin drunk ... and mara2it fatra every night yeb3atleh sms ou3a 2o2ri 100 marra coz no way ma byenfahamo ! he never talked to me this way b4 ... bas i guess i'll try 2 c his parents as soon as i can
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sarah, i see this like what follows... he had something so bad which lead him to do what he is doing now.. and obviously he didnt have that life before i guess...
and as i see.. ur a good friend of him, and uve tried all possibilities....y dont u try to wait the time when hez not drunk and pretend being like wanting 2 get the life he is having currently...he'll sure prevent u from it because he well knows it is real bad...and keep on talkin with him..until u know what lead him into that because he isnt happy with it...
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what if i waited and it was 2 late ...? what if he really was on drugs ? what if he was drunk and he was driving ? (bala being drunk i worry abt him driving...) and many questions thats goes into my mind
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Old 08-03-2007   #15
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You know i envy him for having a caring friend like you ... but try to fix the original problem ... don't talk about the drinking issue or drugs now ... the drinking is just a consequence of his problem ... once you fix that problem ... el drinking will be fixed by itself ...

I know that you already know that especially when you said that you are worried about his health in the meanwhile and you are afraid that he might hurt himself if it took time ...

here his family has to play the major role ... depending on how much they care and how much they can influence on him ... if not la7 ykoun 7emel kbir 3alayke and you'll need some help from specialists if necessary

try step by step now ... it's really difficult situation

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take an advice from me , dont do anything , hes jst washing away the pain he feels , when its time to get back to life , hell be back
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i'll be very silly in my reply and say: forget about him.
and i hope this doesn't get deleted.
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well i tried ... he once smsed me w bahdalneh w nasharneh over smtg silly coz he was drunk ... and for a whole month ma t3atet ma3o ... he used to sms w ma red ... until he came la 3andeh 3al uni and said he;s sorry n all ... but i ct just fgt abt him .. coz the guy means the world to me ... he hurts me ktir bala ma y7es when he;s drunk .. but m ready to take that pain n help him ... coz i dt wana regret not helping him
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there are many people in the world who need help, not only this guy. if forgetting about him is pain, then helping him getting out all of his troubles is more pain i think.
"3ishe ktir bet shoufe ktir" sarah, shefte shi za3ajik and it does not seem that you liked the 'show'.
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Ya roudy many pers. needs help .. but the closest pers. to me and the only pers. i care abt so much is in big troubles ... i duno if i can just walk out n leave him like this ... mech i duno i know that i cant ... eno he;s a brother to me .. n m sure if i was in big shit he;d b next to me ...
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